by R K Garg
Chandigarh, September 20, 2020: Getting judgmental is normal for a human being.
Normally, our behavioral approach depends on the type of expectations we have from others, once the expectations are met every thing is fine otherwise we start evaluating every step.
By nature, we evaluate others and never think about ourselves or our point of view.
This statement may surprise many because we are selfish by nature and think about own selfish ends.
Now in the other way round ,suppose someone points a finger at us and we are irritated by the behavior and we snap relations without even thinking about the compulsions and circumstances in which others have behave in that fashion.
This we do without thinking even once … not to talk of twice.
Many a times we have done something really wrong and others point it out … but even then we remain adamant and do not see the point raised by others because of some compulsion.
This is a sort of reaction only.
Breaking a relationship is very easy and simple but that is not a good way to flourish and become a better person.
A better behavioral approach will be to act with a broad mind and try to analyse and not be judgmental.
All such ways to make a better society need a broader thinking process and sustained efforts with almost complete basic knowledge of facts.
Many a times, we fail miserably because we could not withstand the ways of life and at the fag end of life we feel that we have failed as we have not been able to handle things in a better way.
Maybe, it does not apply to all, the behavior came out of compulsion otherwise it was not intended.
Respecting the other’s views and giving them the space to express is real a long term making of a better society.
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by R K Garg